WHEN CHAOS PATTERNED ITSELF

This has been a long quiet summer of contemplation, mentoring young adults, learning and letting go. The summer just went on and on forever but yesterday I felt the first real breath of autumn and I know it is here to stay. Today the last young ones left me and I am finally alone withContinue reading “WHEN CHAOS PATTERNED ITSELF”

THE ART OF SILENCE

Everybody who works with people need to take an oath of silence, even if it is only to themselves. As a therapist or coach you learn so much about the people you work with, private stuff, and for them to feel safe you need to make sure they understand that everything stays between the twoContinue reading “THE ART OF SILENCE”

INTENTION IS THE KEY

This is a follow-up to non-violent communication.  In all communication intention is always the key. Intention can help to keep you away from anger and other emotional outbursts.  What do you want to say? What is your need? Intention will make you much clearer both for yourself and the person you are speaking to. HereContinue reading “INTENTION IS THE KEY”